oh i feel so sorry for you, i only asked about the temp as i did a water/gravel change on mine last week and forgot to turn the heater back on so when i put him back in he went upside down and i really thort i would loose him, but i was lucky in the fact that i have another tank so he was able to recover in there, now has septicemia tho, tho is responding to treatment.
if i were you i would keep asking questions,keep reading up whenever you get spare time,its the only way, and dont take it to heart,
wish you all best in gaining lots and lots of information
shelagh xxxxxxxx