I have a discus in my tank with american Cichlids awaiting to move him to a discus tank that is almost complete but he is very happy in my Cichlid tank and if you ask any cichlid fish owners they suggest not keeping them together but mine has been absolutely fine
I see something like this a lot, on this forum and elsewhere. Aquarists take relatively normal actions like swimming, eating, even spawning, as proof their fish are "happy." This is a false assumption.
First of all, unless we could talk to a fish, there is simply no way we can know they are happy; it is a biological impossibility because we have no means of communicating such things back and forth. The will to survive is the strongest motivation in all animals, and fish are no different. Placed in a negative situation, they have two options, either fight it, or succumb. The stress the situation itself places upon the fish can be considerable, but unseen externally--until it is too late. Aggression, dominance, etc does not need to be physical attacking, it can be the chemical signals (pheromones and allomones) fish use to communicate. The actual situation in your cichlid tank may be very alarming, if it were possible to see it; for example, the wrong combination of species can create such a negative environment that fish are unable to "be themselves normally," so what appears to us as tranquility is in fact anything but peace and calm.
In my earlier post I referenced the fish's behaviours being programmed into their DNA. We are not going to change these, but we can often affect how the fish responds, negatively or positively, to the environment we force upon them...and they have no means of escape, as they would in nature, but can only "grin and bare it" somehow. And unfortunately, this is usually to the fish's detriment.
This is why we research a species, to learn what it "expects" of its environment, and then we provide as best we can an environment within the aquarium that matches. To cite how to provide healthy conditions for aquarium fish from
The Manual of Fish Health, "The first step is to gather as much information as possible about the natural environment and behavioural characteristics of the fishes you wish to keep. The more the conditions you provide differ from those in the wild, the more likely the fishes are to be stressed and susceptible to disease."