Yes Adrianl, you have a point. There are really no clear cut rules in this hobby, unfortunately. I wish I knew what to do!
Hubby is the main breadwinner at the moment. I do work, but only when I feel like it.

So, yes he is financing the tank if that is what you are getting at. I should let him feel like he has a say in it too.............
I guess I will just watch, wait and see.
Wuv, you are right, he is so bubbly around the tank and such a fun fish. He hasn't touched anyone yet, so I am keeping my fingers crossed and then double crossed again! And I stuck my hand in the tank the other day without thinking about it, and he didn't even try to come my way, thank goodness!

He really is a fun fish, so, if he does end up destroying the tank, I will make the decision on whether or not to get rid of him. I might even keep him then, since my hubby loves him so much. Maybe then I could have the boxfish I always wanted..............a little cowface puffer or something like that.
What to do?? What to do.....................