Kevin,
Sorry about the loss of your fish.
But let's clarify something: a mono is totally and utterly incompatible with dwarf gouramis. Gouramis are all freshwater fish, and dwarf gouramis in particular need soft, acid water. Since your pH is above 7.8, it's safe to say that you have hard, alkaline water. Monos need not only hard, alkaline water but also marine salt added to the tank. Some would argue they are really marine fish, over the long term.
When dwarf gouramis are kept in sub-optimal conditions (as these are) they get sick. And then they die. Period. For the one person who keeps them alive for a year or more in hard, alkaline water you will find a hundred people with dwarf gouramis that die for some unspecified reason. Dwarf gouramis are extremely delicate to begin with, irrespective of the fact that they are cheap and widely sold. So, though I hate telling you this, but the new pair are likely to die within the next few months.
You can soften water relatively easily. Rainwater will do adequately well (what I use). Assuming you don't live right next door to a factory or in the middle of a major city, rainwater is pretty clean, and even if somewhat polluted, will still have lower nitrates and hardness than the water out of the tap (faucet). Read around and you will find (unarguably) safer alternatives, but these tend to be expensive. Your call.
OK, monos. These are most likely
Monodactylus argenteus. These are large, schooling, predatory fish that need brackish water. Yes, they breed in freshwater, but they grow up in estuaries and the adults are essentially marine fish. The fact they breed in freshwater is no more significant than saying caterpillars live on cabbages: butterflies don't! So while your fish store is telling you something that is technically correct, it is extremely misleading. If you can, avoid using a store that tells you this kind of rubbish. They have no interest in the well-being of your fish, and only want to sell you another fish.
If you continue to keep the mono in freshwater, it will eventually sicken, and probably die. Sensitivity to whitespot is just the begining. Also be aware that monos grow to around 12 cm (minimum) in length and potentially much more. Check out the Brackish FAQ for more on monos and brackish water fish generally:
http
/homepage.mac.com/nmonks/aquaria/brackfaqpart1.html
Sorry that this message is somewhat negative. If I can make a helpful suggestion, do a water test of your local water supply. If you have water that is hard and alkaline, then restrict your selection of fish to species adapted to such conditions. These include livebearers, many cichlids, rainbowfish, most gobies, and many killifish. If you add some marine salt (not cooking salt) to the tank, you can expand this further and keep brackish water fish, such as soles, gobies, and puffers. In larger tanks (40 gallons minimum) then things like monos, scats, and archers become options.
The fact that you're even attempting to keep a mono with a pair of dwarf gouramis suggests to me that you haven't read a proper aquarium book yet. Can I suggest that instead of buying another fish, you spend some money on an aquarium book and read it? You've learned a useful lesson here: advice from tropical fish stores should be taken with a big spoonful of salt. Particularly misleading are staff in any shop not 100% dedicated to keeping fish -- for example Walmart, Petco, etc. While these shops may be fine for picking up "dry goods" (filters, heaters, etc.) they're abysmal -- with few exceptions -- when it comes to having healthy livestock and offering useful advice.
There are lots of people who can give you advice for free, so it's a really good idea to ask your questions here, preferably before you buy any more fish! Fishkeeping is a great hobby, but when it's done badly, it's depressing watching fish die and ultimately a waste of lives and money. Done well, you'll get to see some fantastic animals living happy, long lives.
Sincerely,
Neale