Well there is one thing i know when she rejects the male, because my red finned swordtail female does it, and she just simply swim away, thought that particular female has two males chasing her for one thing only, which i find pretty sad, as for Coral (Pinned striped female) i bought a new male pinned striped swordtail and when he went near her the first time, her fins stood right up and then she chased him off, and he did the same, however he seems to show his side to her, showing him trying to dominate her, i guess you could say that she did kinda turn herself and slap him with her fin, but that not what worries me, she dont turn or anything, and shakes her head rapids, as if electric is surgering from the nearby male into her