Also, if you vompare a male to a female from above you'll see the female is wider. The male, from the side is more elongated-looking and more streamlined - realy it's just that the female is 'deeper'.
Some thing else you'll see besides the color is that, as the male matures, the fin rays on the anal and a little on the dorsal fins become extended so that the fins look lace-like (thus the common name 'lace gourami') while the females' usualy remain pretty much the same length.
Once your fish reach a reasonable size, you'll also be able to tell the difference from their behaviour - and this applies to almost any species. In pearls, the male will set up a territory and may sometimes be seen defending it while the female is less territorial. He may also chase her around a bit. However, pearls are not as violent as most other gouramies in defending their territory and spawning so it won't be as obvious as it would be in, say, a three-spot.