I think its because the URL that you typed in has characters like "?=&" that doesn't work. If its photobucket, then try to elminate those.
Heres an example
http/s218.photobucket.com/albums/cc43/gourami_fan/?action=view¤t=IMG_0738.jpg
Erase the bolded part leaving only the name of the image
>>>>http/s218.photobucket.com/albums/cc43/gourami_fan/IMG_0738.jpg<<<< Then you have this.
From those pictures I'd say female. The dorsal and pelvic fins don't look long enough for a male, also on the third picture there seem to be blue dots on the black dot on it's side.
Rams have very changeable colouration, my female does not always display a pink belly.