As Berryattack says they need a mature tank, as they are sensitive to changes in water parameters, plus they need the algae on the glass etc to feed. What have you been feeding, and how much?
You say your tank is "kinda new" and you lost other fish. Can you give us more info., as to the history of the tank/fish. Was the tank cycled?
Sounds like you are likely to loose your Oto, however the above info., will assist us in helping you before re-stocking.