There is no way to tell males from females by their spots. The only certain way to tell is by their breeding tubes. I bought 2 bolivians a few years ago, I got the two most different ones in the tank - and they both turned put to be males. They were young, so no visible breeding tubes. A few months later in a different shop they had some bigger (that is, older) ones, and the males and females were quite obvious as their breeding tubes were visible.
If yours don't have visible breeding tubes, you'll have to wait till you can see them to be sure.
Forgot another sign before - look at the underside between the anal fin and the tail. If the shape is a nice curve continuing from the mouth to the tail, that's a female - unless she's been underfed at the shop. If the curve from the mouth flattens off at the anal fin to tail region that's a male - or an undernourished female.