I dont thin kits the loss of fry....Ive taken fry from my cons pretty early before and while they were pissed...they never seemed to be affected by it. Whats your water readings? Convicts are very hardy and can tolerate a wide range of water quality....Does she look like shes been "damaged"? I only ask because my male convict will usually flip out and attack the female once their fry are free swimming. I currently have to seperate the pair and let the male do all the protecting. HIH