What how do i find one near me? and once i find one how can i become a part of it?You can always join a local Freecycle group. There is one where you live. People offer things they don't want anymore or ask for things they need. All free. You just say you're interested and if you're first in line they will contact you with details. My group had 3 offers of free tanks this week alone.
That is SO like us too, except we bought a 200 quid car off ebay the other month. We don't go out in it though, it's just an incentive car, I am taking lessons. That's what I define as "going out", lol, once a week Steve comes and gets me in the little blue driving school car and I have my "fun night out".