I came home to find my heater on (I think its been on all day) and I have a thermometer in the tank and it read 90F but when I stuck my finger in the water it didn't feel hot and felt the same as the 55g. But the heater keeps going on and off (but staying on longer than staying off). So should I use the 50 watt heater that I use for my long 20g or what?