I've accidently forgot to turn my heater back on (a couple of days ago infact) and my neons went very pale! I only lost 1 fish though, and that could have just been stress from the previous few days of rescaping anyway.
I'm not sure why your fish all died though - I put all my fish a bath full of tank water for about 6 hours, with no filter or heater. And they were all fine (albeit a little pale)
I doubt it would have killed that many fish on it's own though?
But don't give up, as you said you can use this as a time to try a new species of fish or something new!
Good luck,
Andy