Definitely go by the tummy fin...the females is wide and rounder, like circular or wedge shaped, the males multiple and long and narrow, the gonopodium as it's called. I'm wondering if I put something into the water here as my females have alot of body colour for females, iridescence right up their sides. Right cuties. Body shape can sometimes help sex them...females rotund, males slender....but below a certain age I can't tell who is who. Anyways good luck. I had one fry that seemed to change from "i dunno" to "MALE" overnight and trying to get that sucker out of the tank took me two weeks! He LOVED being with the females and would hide and swim lower down the minute he saw me coming. Finally got him into the male "monastery" tank. Sneak!