Girl Or Boy

[t.ropical_m.istx3]

i thought she was a girl until i put her by iceman. she has the white spot (i can't spell the real name for it, i'm not even going to try.) and she's small. she was in with other girls and she got along really well with them. when i put her by iceman, she flared and she had the big flarebut when she's not flaring you can't tell like you can with my other boys. i tried to get a picture but she's now use to being by ice and she won't flare at him anymore

 

[Dibari]

I have a girl who flares. Alot of females show dominant behaviour like flaring and bubblenesting, but they're still female.

 

[t.ropical_m.istx3]

oh yeah, all of my girls flare, it was just this girl had that "excess gill" that only the boys are suppose to have. but i'd never seen it before she flared.

 

[Dibari]

oh yeah, all of my girls flare, it was just this girl had that "excess gill" that only the boys are suppose to have. but i'd never seen it before she flared.

Ah, one of my girls flare all the time. perfectly normal.

 

[lilfishie]

what she means is that the female has just as big flare as the males do, she has that extra bit of skin as males do

 

[Amunet]

I've read that alot of people have males that have the white spot when they're still young. So that could be wht's going on with your lil he/she heh

 

[t.ropical_m.istx3]

I've read that alot of people have males that have the white spot when they're still young. So that could be wht's going on with your lil he/she heh

i knew i've read that somewhere before. thanks . (s)he hasn't really grown since i got him/her and i've had her for a month-month and a half. i wasn't sure if that was still an option or not. i may move her beside one of my other boys to see if she acts the same so i can get pictures of her flaring for you.