With my pair of cardinals, the male has a shorter dorsal fin than the female, but not by much. The femcale also has more silver spots on her side.
As for the mouth shape, only when the pair are breeding can I see a difference as the males mouth becomes huge towards the bottem, but otherwise, they are pretty similar.
I wouldnt recommend keeping 4 in 200l as aggression would eventually take hold and as said eariler, by colin,the safest bet is either a pair, or a large group in a large tank.
With a pair, there is a good chance of them breeding.
My pair have just bred for the 7th time. Although catching the male is no easy task, the reward for raising and selling the fry is very much welcomed.
Hope this has helped.