Hi Becky
In my experience of them they have been fairly peaceful twoards fish of a decent size( i.e.average molly size), I work in the local aquatics store where we sell a few of these fish and i myself own one,
my BGK is only about 5" at present but is much more peaceful than the kribs and RTB shark and Reed Fish that share its tank, Also a regular customer of mine owns a BGK which he says is around 12" this is also kept with Kribensis as well as Large Gouramis.
This is a brief intro to them :
These fish are generally timid and should be kept in an aquarium with numerous hiding places such as roots and caves, if properly cared for they will become quite trusting and can even be hand fed. The aquarium should have a fine gravel bottom with many plants. They should not be kept with very small fish or aggressive larger fish. They possess a weak electric organ at the caudal peduncle, which is used to locate food.
IMO it would be fine to start off with a very young BGK and keep it with medium sized fish, in a suitable sized tank, With any Big fish people will say that if another fish will fit in its mouth then there is always a risk of it eating them, However i think that if the fish are fed the right foods and as much as required then the fish will have no need to hunt for food,