thank you for all the opinions. i definately don't want any problems with my gramma, so the basslet will be a no go!
depending on what you read i have found several references to kole and yellow tangs being ok in a 50gal or larger, but don't worry i won't put in any more. i am also planning on moving into a new house within 1-2 years, and will upgrade to about a 100-150 gal. as for the clowns, both pairs are really young, (only about 1- 1.5 inches each) and were introduced together so i figured it's worth a shot. the skunks live in a long tentacle anemone and the percs are on the other side of the tank by the filter box(flat sides).
i also want to add that i have 50 lbs of fiji and fiji branch live rock, and also run a 75 gal wet dry so i do have good filtration imo.
once again thanks for all your opinons i really appreciate the advice,
Jason