Betta Pursuasion?

Neon.Tetra

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Ok, So, I really want a betta. I have done for a while. If I'd go out shopping I'd usually end up finding my way to the pet shop and having a nose around. My friend recently got a large tank from her mum from her work (which she got for about £20 and this included a filter, heater, lid, gravel, the whole set up etc. Which I thought was rather good) and asked me to come with her to help her choose some fish to put in there. She already had a goldfish given to her as a present and decided to stick with goldfish and so bought 4 more. We visited quite a good local pet shop and I was thrilled to find bettas in thier aquariums. I've never seen them in any of our local pet shops before and they had a few for sale, and yes, I did get quite excited.

Anyways, Life story aside...
I sort of lost faith in getting a Betta mainly because I couldn't find them in supply anywhere, and I know my parents aren't to keen on adding another animal to the family (We're doing quite well seeing as I was told to never expect an animal to set foot inside our household with a dog, a history of 3 cats, a rabbit, a hampster and 2 fish) So I wasn't expecting my dad to want to pay for a betta to be mailed to me, let alone get one at all.

My obsession died down, but now, It's in full flare again! (Like a betta...Get it?). I know full well my folks probably won't let me get this fish so being a devious little fellow I set up a little plan. I'd kept goldish before, In quite a large plastic tank which sits in my garage right now. Those goldfish were immense and lived quite a few years.

Another friend owned a goldfish aswell a few weeks ago. She didn't really want it and often I'd come round to find it in a half full tank (Must have been about a 2 Gal tank when full) of green water. She had offered me the fish to keep simply because she wasn't interested in it and I was more than happy to look after it for her. I told my folks about this fish (not mentioning it was a goldfish) and they un-surprisingly said no. I later found out she had then given the goldfish to her neighbours to put in their pond ¬_¬. I haven't told them this and they still think she has the fish. Now heres where my little plan kicks in :shifty:

I told my mum that my friends tank cracked and the fish in it was then moved out and placed in a small container. I also kinda said that she didn't want the fish and was prepared to flush the live fish down the toilet because she didn't have anywhere to put it, or a proper tank. I asked my parents if I could take the fish because she offered me it just a few
minutes before-hand via a phone call. At first on the phone it was a solid NO! but then my mum listened, especially when I told her about the flushing. Once my mum or dad gave me the 'Yes, Ok' I planned to go to the fish shop where I saw the bettas and buy one pretending it was the fish she had offered me. I would have bought the food, the heater, the gravel, the filter, the plants, the fish blah blah, blah blah. With my own money aswell, (might I add!).

It's like a sodding mission. I've researched bettas, and I feel I know more than enough to care for them, and reading many posts and threads in this section of the forum has really helped that. It's rediculous and I should really tell the truth but I guess people will do anything for a Betta!

Any Ideas on how I can pursuade them to appreciate the beauty of a betta at home? (Or any further additions to my plan!?)
I've recently recieved my GCSE results a few weeks ago and I'm set to go to college next tuesday, thought that might work well in my favour, And I've been hoovering, Aren't I good? ^_^

Wow Essay.
 
You're going to be going to college and need to ask your parents permission for a fish? That seems a bit strict to me.

I don't see what doesn't work out with your plan... Just make sure it's not going to come around and bite you in the ass later.

Personally, I would express my interest in bettas and throw out all kinds of fun facts about them around dinner, etc (whether they want to hear it or not :lol: ). They really are interesting pets, even for people that think fish are mundane and boring. Convincing them that you are willing to provide adequate care and explaining how much of a passion it is to you would certainly get you on the right track. A week of betta talk will make them cave in just so they wont have to hear about it anymore :lol:

The more facts and things you know about them the better. Plus you WILL be genuinely interested and will WANT to pester them about a betta anyways :p . I would be more inclined to let my kid have a fish if I understood that they weren't just doing it on a whim and it was something they were truly passionate about.

Anyways, that's how I would approach it.... and have approached other things when I was living with my parents. Doesn't hurt to be a good kid as well ;)

What kind of tank are you thinking about?

Stick around these forums. As you already know, dreaming about these guys and reading about them is almost as much fun as owning a betta. You'll learn a lot just hanging around here. Good to have another conscientious fish enthusiast here. :good:
 
Ahh neon.tetra.....

You sound exactly like me! I soooo would have made up my own similar plan if I wasn't allowed :lol:

I think you should go for it!

Remz is right, going to college next week and not being allowed to even keep a fish is a little strict, so a little white lie won't do any harm.

Just make sure you buy an exceptionally BEAUTIFUL fish so that your parents have no choice but to like it. I'm lucky in a sense...my mum calls my fish her grandchildren (especially the fry lol)



I just wanted to add that I have actually done a similar thing to you neon...

I was out at the markets one day with my boyfriend when I saw these puppies for $30 each....how could you go wrong!

I knew my olds would be p!ssed coz we already had 2 dogs, but I bought him anyway coz I just had to. Anyway, my olds pretty much kicked me out for bringing him home, but I was 18 so naturally I stayed lol. I told my mum that the lady was just going to dump them there if nobody bought them. After that, he was allowed to stay, and now he is my dads fav! lol
 
Ahh neon.tetra.....

You sound exactly like me! I soooo would have made up my own similar plan if I wasn't allowed :lol:

I think you should go for it!

Remz is right, going to college next week and not being allowed to even keep a fish is a little strict, so a little white lie won't do any harm.

Just make sure you buy an exceptionally BEAUTIFUL fish so that your parents have no choice but to like it. I'm lucky in a sense...my mum calls my fish her grandchildren (especially the fry lol)



I just wanted to add that I have actually done a similar thing to you neon...

I was out at the markets one day with my boyfriend when I saw these puppies for $30 each....how could you go wrong!

I knew my olds would be p!ssed coz we already had 2 dogs, but I bought him anyway coz I just had to. Anyway, my olds pretty much kicked me out for bringing him home, but I was 18 so naturally I stayed lol. I told my mum that the lady was just going to dump them there if nobody bought them. After that, he was allowed to stay, and now he is my dads fav! lol
lol coming home with a dog is a little bit worse than coming home with a fish. :lol: nice one

There ya go. If missigfunk can get away with THAT, you can certainly pull off bringing home a goldfish... ehemmm... i mean betta :p
 
My hubby told me no pets so...... I brought home a betta in an horribly small container....Fred was not planned but there he was sitting on the island in my kitchen. My hubby had a HUGE hissy fit. Hubby told me to get rid of "that stupid fish" and I told him if he hurt one scale on Fred hubby would live to regret it. It took about a week for hubby to start talking to Fred. Since then Fred has died and now Charlie lives in my house, he is in a 2 1/2 gallon which he shares with Cato, an oto. And hubby now talks to Charlie. It was nothing I did, that betta pursuasion, won hinm over.
 
i think once they see the lil guy that should persuade them, my parents weren't too happy when i got my first, then one male took a liking to my mum and now she loves them as much as me
 
I brought home a pair of rats from college. I wasn't supposed to have them because my dad is allergic. I didn't even bother to lie, but then, my parents didn't bother to bring it up -lol-
 
Ahh neon.tetra.....

You sound exactly like me! I soooo would have made up my own similar plan if I wasn't allowed :lol:

I think you should go for it!

Remz is right, going to college next week and not being allowed to even keep a fish is a little strict, so a little white lie won't do any harm.

Just make sure you buy an exceptionally BEAUTIFUL fish so that your parents have no choice but to like it. I'm lucky in a sense...my mum calls my fish her grandchildren (especially the fry lol)



I just wanted to add that I have actually done a similar thing to you neon...

I was out at the markets one day with my boyfriend when I saw these puppies for $30 each....how could you go wrong!

I knew my olds would be p!ssed coz we already had 2 dogs, but I bought him anyway coz I just had to. Anyway, my olds pretty much kicked me out for bringing him home, but I was 18 so naturally I stayed lol. I told my mum that the lady was just going to dump them there if nobody bought them. After that, he was allowed to stay, and now he is my dads fav! lol
lol coming home with a dog is a little bit worse than coming home with a fish. :lol: nice one

There ya go. If missigfunk can get away with THAT, you can certainly pull off bringing home a goldfish... ehemmm... i mean betta :p
see i just prought home a betta fish (rayne) my brother brought him a betta fish and a kitten. the stupid little cat has turned everyones lives upside down, meanwhile rayne has been very quite in her tank and enjoys making me smile.
and she has never made me bleed not once (can't say that about the little devil cat

here is a picture of the two gee i wonder who is the bigger pain
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