This is LONG, and may bore some of you! If you're not interested in fishy soap-operas and stupid humans, please forgive me, and just skip this!
Assume I Know Nothing
When I was given a beautiful turquoise betta-splendens for Mother's Day, I was told it needed no real care: just feed it a few times a week, and keep the water clean. 
After doing some research (on all the wrong sites: mostly pet-store chains) I went to the local PetCo and purchased a female that was the same color and, I was assured, would make a perfect mate. Oooo-kay. So, I also got a 2.5 gallon tank because that's the size the guy at PetCo told me I needed.


I gave my nameless couple a week to get used to one another; I cleaned the tank, put in some bubble-wrap (which the male loved for his nest, building it to a good half inch thickness), and my blue-boy was a very happy camper; the girl was not very sociable, but it takes all kinds, right?
Meanwhile, neither fish would eat the shrimp; all it did was mess up the tanks

That day, I put the female in with the male and watched. He was a sweetheart, coming to the edge of the tank and flirting with me for food,


When I returned, the female's fins were ripped to shreds




That was when I came up with a name for the male: Markie, as in Markie de Sade.
The next day I noticed that the male, my sweetie, had nasty-looking fins: holes where there had been none before, shreds were missing! And the poor female was swimming around happily in her little bowl, blowing bubbles and showing off her lack of finnage. Maybe they hadn't spawned because he was sick! I took the male to the fish-store man.
It was my luck that another customer happened into the pet store while I was there.


She was so sweet and friendly; Markie took to her instantly as she swam in a little bowl beside the larger tank. After a few days, I put the female inside an oil-lamp chimney in the bigger tank, and Markie lost all interest in her. He let his nest fall into nothingness. I was completely confizzled.


With nothing to lose, I decided to put the original female in with the other two: Markie was just swimming around, and Genie was in her lamp, and all of a sudden, Markie began to build a nest again-- full steam ahead! ~*

Genie is in her oil-lamp glass in Markie's tank. Markie has a huge bubble-nest, and so does the nameless, finless female who beat him up, and now resides in her own little aquarium!

Could the original female be a male? Should I have named the original pair Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton? Are the males supposed to get hurt in the spawning process? Can I-- should I-- try to breed a splendens with a crown tail? I read online that it's fine, and that the CT is dominant, but I could get a mix. I no longer trust everything I read online!

I am open to suggestions-- No, I am begging for assistance. I've read pretty much everything I could find online, and I haven't seen anything that addresses this specific situation.
I refuse to be beaten by three fish!


Myrrh