I read this earlier and had to think about it while I got the garden ready for snow. I suspect someone's hormones finally kicked in - maturity. The taeniatus/kribensis group is a strange one. I've raised probably 30 pairs I've bred, and I've seen similar things before.
I've seen males whose dime never dropped, and whatever genetic switches had to trigger to complete their sexual development - it just never happened and they stayed seemingly juvenile (though full sized) for life. Always males. It's something that fascinated me as young males swim together as little shoal,s and some seem to stay at that stage for life.
Your guy may have clicked in at last.
I have 2 pairs of taeniatus right now, and they are at the platonic stage. I saw breeding behaviour from one pair, but it didn't work out. I check them closely as females often kill males if they dawdle.
I think we've traditionally seen these fish through prejudiced glasses - man glasses. Females have set territories, and males hold wider zones. The females take the lead. The males have to pass the test. That's what's the head scratcher for me with what you're seeing. Maybe the male is older than the female, and she's not mature enough? It's usually the female attacking the male, in my experience.
It's white knuckle fishkeeping time for you.