dwarfgourami
Fish Connoisseur
I've had such an appalling time lately, both in the house and in my tanks. Within the last month, the filters have broken down on two tanks- with the resulting deaths of my two favourite fish+ three others (1 thankfully very old, whose death had been long expected). And the failure of workmen to arrive meant that the Rio 240 which should have been up and running a month ago is arriving today, 3 days before the start of halfterm=going away, which means I can't set it up until June, which means the cycle will only be completed just before the start of the summer holiday=going away again. And due to the filter failure I won't have much in the way of old bacteria to help kickstart the filter.
The problem is I'm losing confidence. I always do after a disaster, at least for a few weeks, which is a problem when time is tight. And the disasters would have to coincide with the arrival of my parents, who don't believe in keeping fish. And they are sleeping in the room of the disaster tank, which still needs regular water changes.
Ok folks, I know this is pathetic- I've got a lovely tank arriving, I have made very careful plans, I've done lots of reading up, I have got enough money (for once) to set it up properly- and now I'm losing heart. I might even have cancelled the order, had my daughter not forbidden me. I keep telling myself that this is a learning experience, that I have now been out and got back-up filtration on all my tanks and that consequently this won't happen again, that 7 of the fish in the tanks did survive and survived because of my prompt action, but I still feel bad. Particularly because two of those fish were once I had previously managed to keep alive against all odds (one born deformed, the other very ill after a bad pregnancy).
But I really need someone else to tell me these things. Will you oblige?
Sorry if this sounds pathethic. Can't you guess that I've been up all night with a sick child?
The problem is I'm losing confidence. I always do after a disaster, at least for a few weeks, which is a problem when time is tight. And the disasters would have to coincide with the arrival of my parents, who don't believe in keeping fish. And they are sleeping in the room of the disaster tank, which still needs regular water changes.
Ok folks, I know this is pathetic- I've got a lovely tank arriving, I have made very careful plans, I've done lots of reading up, I have got enough money (for once) to set it up properly- and now I'm losing heart. I might even have cancelled the order, had my daughter not forbidden me. I keep telling myself that this is a learning experience, that I have now been out and got back-up filtration on all my tanks and that consequently this won't happen again, that 7 of the fish in the tanks did survive and survived because of my prompt action, but I still feel bad. Particularly because two of those fish were once I had previously managed to keep alive against all odds (one born deformed, the other very ill after a bad pregnancy).
But I really need someone else to tell me these things. Will you oblige?
Sorry if this sounds pathethic. Can't you guess that I've been up all night with a sick child?

things haven't been great have they ?