I'm in a similar situation, although "hate" is a strong word. However, it is a bit frusturating to put all that time and money into the tank and then have hair algae growing on the plants. Although there seems to be a bit of it most everywhere, I notice it most on the Vallisneria strands closest to the top. Although it also seems to grow on my struggling dwarf sag. I also do not have very high nitrates, 5 ppm. I'm thinking light is more of a contributing factor than nitrates. I recently increased my lighting and my plants started doing better but so did the algae. How do you get a proper balance?!