I love your betta room! I will have to take a picture of my closet. That is where I house my bettas. Its warmer in there and it keeps there water at 80 degrees. My breeding tank is near my bed so that I can watch them and then fall asleep. My bettas have great personalities. They all come...
She won't starve herself. The food that you are feeding her maybe different from the food she is used to eating. I have had a male go 5 days without eating. Don't worry too much she will come around.
:-( He eventually will get her. Does she have a place to hide from him? Is the temp 82 to 85 degrees in the tank? The spawning can take up to three days to happen, and don't be surprised if when you take her out after he chases her away that she is a little beat up. Put her in a bowl with maroxy...