According to Ron Shimek the smallest tank any urchin should be housed in is 50g. However I know that many people in this forum have Diadema Spp, including myself, in tanks smaller than 50g and we are enjoying success. I think that a permanent fixture in a 14g is a little 'cosy' and may not be in the urchins best interest so looking to rehouse him else where is probably the best option.
Just out of curiousity how does he 'destroy the rockwork'??
Regards