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First of all, do not panic about the Fishless Cycle, I had to read it quite a few times before I even started to understand it and belive me, I sure am not a scientist at all!
I really would recommend you stay with the fishless cycle process, really is much better and easier than doing a fish in cycle.
Several reasons for this,
1 - Fish in cycle requires a LOT of water changes
2- Can be harmful and stressful for the fishes, fairly likely you may lose some fish this way.
3 - Takes a lot longer, usually several months for fish in cycle compared to 4 to 8 weeks for fishless cycles.
4 - Any mistakes made will probably result in the death of fishes.
Doing a fishless cycle also has the benefit of being able to fully stock your tank in one go once completed rather than gradual stocking when doing fish in cycles.
You WILL get the hang of doing fishless cycles, even pH, ammonia, nitrite, and nitrates will soon be the norm for you and become routine testings.
For a beginner I know it is a lot to take in but if you do things step by step, things will become clearer and easier as you along the fishless cycle. Like you, I was bamboozled and never thought would get the hang of this, I can do this, you most certainly can.
Once you get started, just ask questions on this forum and we will help guide and advise you on whats the next step, thats what we like to do.
Really is easier than you think and reading the Fishless Cycle article will help. Its definitely worth it.