I bought two German Blues from the pet store about two weeks ago. After 4 or 5 days I noticed they had brought ich into my tank. I started treating with rid-ich plus and unfortunately one of the rams passed today. The other one seems to be thriving....no white spots, rubbing against decor, stressful breathing etc. Part of it's top fin appears to be torn (been like this since I bought it though) and hasn't really improved or gotten worse. I would like to know what sex mine is so I can order a opposite sexed one off aquabid once the I'm done treating for ich.