That would be just as bad as keeping them in a 5 gal with fish, no? If one snail dies, the ammonia can kill the other snails too. I think the best option is to keep the apple snails in the 29 gallon (with fish) and count them every day, checking that they're alive. Once the filter matures more (due to increased bio-load from the fry growing up), you shouldn't have as much of a problem if one of the snails dies anyway as the filter should be able to cope with more ammonia anyway and be more capable of compensating for dead snails.I hear you there. Can I keep the apple snails in the 5 gal without fish or is it too small a tank for them? If so, how many could I keep in a 5 gal and would it be balanced enough w/o fish? The goal being to keep snails separate from fish as you said this chaos I would like to avoid again.think of what would have happened in a 5 or 10 gallon (which is why I recommend you keep all of your apple snails in the 29).
What is the KH of your tap water? It is worth figuring out what causes the pH to drop before adding fish. The process of nitrification (ammonia being converted to nitrite and nitrite to nitrate) acidifies the water. If your KH is low, the pH is dropping because the bacteria are processing the nitrite (and whatever ammonia may be in the water). From a not-changing-much point of view, you can try increasing surface agitation and changing your light on hours (5-6h on, 4h off, 5h on, off for the night: this should increase the amount of photosynthesis) to keep the pH up. The lighting period change is only worth trying if you have a decent amount of plants. The later theory would also work if you added more plants instead of changing the photoperiod. I am not sure how effective these two are in practice, but they're easy to try.I checked the tank tonight, nitrite still high but the pH is down to 6.0 again. I also wanted to mention that the bio wheel (HOTB) is not spinning as it should. Last few days I've had to take it out and just put it back in and then it works fine for a while. This could mess things up too couldn't it? usually it spins just slow and will stop for a minute or two.. but I have two other tanks with the HOTB wheels and they work fine. Right now it's spinning like a top, I was working on it earlier. I'm keeping an eye on it. If it slows down again to occasional stopping do I need to replace this unit? What do you think about this pH business? Would you put any fish in there if the pH remains low like this?
A more permanent solution would be to add calcium-based rocks, like reef bones, and/or filter though crushed coral/shells. Be careful with crushed coral: it or dust on it may irritate the fishs' gills. If you have access to mussel shells (leftovers from dinner, for example), they're definitely worth a try and I have not heard of these causing same problems as crushed coral can.
Yes, the problem with the biowheel can end up killing all the bacteria. To be on the safe side, add sponges to the container of water and let them be colonised by bacteria. If you end up getting a few filter, I can highly recommend an external or internal so that you avoid having to worry about the wheel getting stuck. If you get a new filter, you should run it in parallel with the old one for at least 6 weeks before removing the old one.