I am very sorry to hear of your pet's sickness. I'm sure that all in all you gave Tater a great life. Likewise to the above post, come back if you are ready. We understand your situation, and it's a tough one.
i like to fill my tank all the way because my filter causes an annoying dripping noise. its also a good idea to because that means it will take longer for water to evaporate.
i also find my fish tend to breathe a little heavier when sleeping. sounds like sleeping to me. if the snail trap is an aquatic one (wow i want one now) it should be fine.
i would get a breeder net but only for the babies. catch as many as possible while the birthing is happening because it is nearly impossible to guess when to put her in and guessing when at the wrong time can cause miscarriages and death for the babies and mother. you can put the babies in the...