Recent content by shinglyelm

So are you saying wait it out until one of the females establish dominance? Or are you saying I should introduce a male to get these ladies in line? As for waiting, female2's fins are getting pretty frayed and I would think 3-4 weeks would have been long enough to figure out their pecking...

Thank you for such a quick response. I assumed I would get an email notification but I guess not. I have cleaned it a couple time's since and rearrange my fake plants every time. That doesnt do the trick. I have a Fluval 4plus with the flow turned all the way down. Female1 has calmed down...

I just started my dream 40gal and am already hitting a wall. Gourami have been catching my eye for years and so they just had to be in my tank. But I'm having trouble. I bought a male (long top fin, red stripe on bottom fin) and female (shorter top fin, no red stripe, and slightly less...