How old are they?
I believe you can begin to accurately sex them once they are 2-3 months old.
The males typically are more leaner, larger fins, have a beard, and of course will eventually not tolerate another male near them. Females will have a rounder and larger stomach typically with an egg spot. Although egg spots aren’t a certain indicator of gender either, the males can have false egg spots. So if possible it’s best to try and view the females ovaries to get a precise sex.